Job is right. Last year, my H told me he could come either Christmas Day or Eve but not both. He couldn't handle it emotionally.
That changed, he did stay for both, and entered his next stage of crisis.
Hang in there, Ambiv!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway