Thanks all. I am not spending a lot of time focusing on those questions, but they are still questions I wonder about. Maybe the problem is, is that I have too much time to myself before I move. Everything is done, or being done. But overall, however the W acts/says/does it still doesn't change the scenario at all. I am moving in 3 1/2 days and will be leaving 1000klms away from her. I will be nearer to my two sons and friends. I will have so much more access to GAL activities. I will be in my/our own house. She will still be with her girlfriend/partner/whatever. I am fine, good and so glad to be getting out of here.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
