I agree with suckerpunch You've got so much to do before you move, you've not got time to think about your W I know she will always be on your mind, they always are, but try to push your thoughts and feelings to the back of your mind for now. Just my thoughts
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Thanks all. I am not spending a lot of time focusing on those questions, but they are still questions I wonder about. Maybe the problem is, is that I have too much time to myself before I move. Everything is done, or being done. But overall, however the W acts/says/does it still doesn't change the scenario at all. I am moving in 3 1/2 days and will be leaving 1000klms away from her. I will be nearer to my two sons and friends. I will have so much more access to GAL activities. I will be in my/our own house. She will still be with her girlfriend/partner/whatever. I am fine, good and so glad to be getting out of here.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Packers are arriving in half an hour. One good thing about the Education system, they have the removalists pack everything for us. Jet ski and box trailer have gone yesterday. Only two more days of work left. Woohoo.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Everything loaded on the truck. Sleeping bag for the last two nights. All is good. Will be gone in 43 hours.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
You've got so much to do before you move, you've not got time to think about your W 