I think I can stop this.... can you help me?

[Fitz]

Thanks for the advice. I took a few days to kind of cool off and regroup. Since Friday W has really started warming up to me, but for some reason I am just not buying into it.

On Friday night I was making dinner and she asked if I was making it for both of us. I told her sure, help yourself. She made a comment along the lines of "I know you hate me", to which I didnt respond. Later on that night I was in the basement doing some stuff and she came down several times to check on me and see what I was doing.

On Saturday she came with me to my family Xmas party. On the way to the party she was talking alot about the future... together. SHe was asking what I want for Xmas, she was asking me if I was talking to other women, she was hugging me, asking what my plans for tomorrow were and if I wanted to spend the day decorating the house and then make a nice dinner together. She ended the night by telling me that she really misses me.

Then on Sunday it was more of the same. Her hugging, telling me she misses me, asking if I will sleep in the bed with her etc.

These past few days have been really good, but for me they do not erase the nightmare of the past month. I am almost expecting things to get bad again and for her rollercoaster to continue.

I will continue with the DBing and GAL and following the 37 rules, I am feeling better and seeing progress. My question to others is how do you know when her actions are no longer part of the rollercoaster and when it is time to try again? I do not want to miss the opportunity if it is presenting itself, but at the same time I am hesitant to believe it?