Slow down, take a deep breath. You sound very needy and desperate in your other thread. That WILL get communicated to your W and it is VERY unattractive. This is a marathon, not a sprint. You have plenty of time. Use it wisely. Quit pursuing her. You haven't even read DR or DB yet and still you keep asking for "the" fix. But there isn't one. Wait until the books arrive. Read them, then read all of the responses in your other thread again, there is some excellent wisdom there and it will make more sense to you after you read the books.
DB'ing takes months or even years, not days or weeks. Settle in and be patient. Good luck!
