Originally Posted By: tough spot
Today we spent all day together, ran errands, seemed to have fun. I did step up the first two times we have had these type discussions.

But I suspect if I asked her if she changed her mind she would say no.


You are correct. A lot of WAS's do this after BD. They go through the motions of being a good spouse. They continue doing things as a family, may even allow physical contant and even ML. But for now she is DONE and if you ask, she will confirm that. So don't read anything into her actions, they don't mean anything for now. Read and reread DR and put it into action. Read Sandi2's 37 Rules and live those tips! Good luck!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57