Quote: Positives: 1. H is spending a lot of time here. 2. H is playful and laughing more than he has in a long time. 3. H wants to sneak in whenever we can. 4. H filed taxes as married filing jointly. 5. H wants to sell our classic car to upgrade our boat. (this could also be a bad thing - but I am not going to pass judgement yet) 6. H helped get house ready for guests.
So there it is. The things I need to keep working on getting past are:
1. Not getting resentful of his having it all - his family, his wife, and his own space. 2. Not getting upset that his cost of living separately is draining our savings account. 3. His inability or unwillingness to talk out loud about what is keeping him from coming home.
This is wonderful, wonderful, wonderful! You are seeing the positives and working on the things that might cause you to interfere with your own goals! I'm proud of you!
I have no advice or other comments because you are doing so well you don't need any!
