They need to do it at their own pace for some reason.
Yesterday was a somewhat lousy day H was really cranky and on edge. He spent most of day with S9. S9 had two hockey games in the am and mid pm so I was around H quite a bit.
Last night he said he was going out to watch the Hockey game (Boston Bruins fan). I said ok and I think he was expecting me to quiz him on who and where but I didnt. I then decided to take S9 to movies. H seemed a little distraught about that. Like he wanted to go but didnt. We were in the line at the movies and H called to say he loved me. He was at home and really had no plans just felt he needed to be alone because he was so cranky. He has been depressed lately and just started on some antideprresant which I cant wait to kick in. Anyway I said I would have asked him to the movies but didnt want to put pressure on you. He said I understand. When we got home from movies he called and wanted to come by. He came by and we watched tv a little and went to bed and ML. He is still sleeping as we speak. My plan now is to take one minute at a time and try to enjoy the good times. Have a good Sunday PS Tomorrow is our 18th Wedding Anniversary
