totite, It IS frustrating, isn't it... what IS going on in there. Just know that he cares for you, cares for your family... I have no words of wisdom for you to shake him up... if you find some, let me know.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
