KMFLA - Sounds like our sitches are pretty similar. Mine didn't have an OW at all, but everything else whatever the reason they leave, they still aren't home.

Definately a guy thing. If you didn't know that my H didn't call this home, you wouldn't know we were separated.

I think that because it was such a huge decision to move out, that it makes it all the harder to move back. I think he has a lot of fear keeping him away.

Yet, I have proven over and over, that I am giving him the time to do what he has to do. I promised back in October that I wouldn't talk R and I haven't. There is no pressure from me - just love and support. Time will tell.

Just have to keep practicing the PATIENCE thing.

Thanks for stopping - I'll try to find your thread later.

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