on the edge pt 2

[dingo]

In the past, i did not always treat her like an equal partner. I didnt always give ultimatums but if i felt that we should be saving X amount of money per month, thats what we saved. If I felt that we couldn't afford to go on vacation, we didn't. Most of the decisions centered around our finances. I decided what we could spend our savings on. I felt like I was being responsible in managing our resources and never got the impression that she was financially responsible.