H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
On top of all that I've got going on at the mo, my friend texted me. "When are we meeting up then mrs?". I reply "I dunno yet, I'll have to let you know. I'm at college Monday, tuesday wednesday and thursday next week, but they're not full days". She just puts ok. Next thing I see she's writing something on FB, not the DB FB my other one. She updated her status with something like, it's nice to know who your friends are when you need them. FFS!!! Why do I always pick high maintenance friends. I texted her and said I hope that message wasn't for me and she said don't be silly, I was just disappointed that's all but you can't help it. Then she texted again saying never mind. I texted her to say I didn't say I wasn't going to meet you, I just don't know when yet! I don't really need this BS. I've got enough on my plate. I've still got cards to write, pressies to buy and wrap and post out. Anyway rant over, lol. I know she's depressed but I wish my depressed friends didn't take it out on me, I can't cope! lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
They say that when it rains, it pours LOL. Don't we all have that one friend that is higher maintenance than all the others?
Saw the photos of your decorator's work on FB. Looking good. That flaw that your H made so much of - can it be hidden behind something? That's the way I dealt with a flaw in the work in my son's room - we reorganzied and moved things around a bit and a bookcase now covers the little flaw.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I don't mind the flaw being there, it makes the room look rustic As I said on FB ealier, if H went round an old country cottage then he'll be there all day pointing out all the flaws, lol. Just proves to me that he is still in MLC, lol. I'm not going to do anything with it just to annoy H or get a big mirror to hide it. H has never liked mirrors about the fireplace as they remind him of horror movies. As MH says Mwah ha ha ha, lol. I was thinking of texting my friend and saying that she can meet up with me in the afternoon tomorrow but I've no idea what time I'll be back in town. I've also got to get my son's hair cut, can you believe the hairdresser was shut on Saturday! We've also got to have some lunch and then I need to get some presents as well. The trouble is my friend isn't working at the mo so she's got no money. If we go to the coffee shop then I have to buy her a drink and if she comes to my house then she will stay for hours and I can't get rid of her! At least if I tell her what I plan to do tomorrow, she won't think I'm making up excuses not to see her. I've promised to take my son to a nearby city on Wednesday to look around the German market and go to the Cinema. That's of course if I've passed my exam on Tuesday, otherwise I'll have to resit it on Wednesday. I feel this friend is being very selfish this week, I know she's depressed but she needs to consider my feelings as well. I've got so much more to do to get ready for Christmas and I haven't got much time. We're also in college on Thursday as well this week. The nail art competition went well and I'll post the photos up on FB later I'm in the library at the mo, having just finished the history of massage. I can relax now and go on DB forums
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Friends are far, friends are near, Friends will be there to lend an ear, They listen, laugh, and care, But most of all, they're always there, Through thick and thin, up and down, Your true friends are always around, For treats, hugs and real big smiles, They'll travel to you from several miles, They'll always be there to hold you tight, Anytime, no matter if it's day or night, You really know when your friends are sincere, When they always show up to lend their ear.
I don't mind the flaw being there, it makes the room look rustic As I said on FB ealier, if H went round an old country cottage then he'll be there all day pointing out all the flaws, lol. Just proves to me that he is still in MLC, lol. I'm not going to do anything with it just to annoy H or get a big mirror to hide it. H has never liked mirrors about the fireplace as they remind him of horror movies. As MH says Mwah ha ha ha, lol.
My son wants to reorganize his room so there's a good chance the little flaw there will come out into the open again. It wasn't my choice to hide it - yep, it was H's decision. Maybe you should sell your place and buy a rustic country cottage to really drive your H nuts LOL
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
2old, A friend in need is a bl88dy nuisance, lol. Just saying I texted my friend and told her how busy I was tomorrow but I said I'll meet her after I've got all my jobs done. I thought she might've said that not to worry if I'm too busy, but she didn't, lol. She texted me to apologise for being a**sy with me yesterday. I said that's ok, but just remember that I've got issues as well and when she gets low she brings me down as well. She apologised again and I said that's ok again, lol. I hope now she gets the message I felt so low when I went to bed last night, but I've cheered up today The Christmas cards have started coming in thick and fast and I've not written one yet! My next thing on my to do list. The relatives abroad will just have to get theirs late this year I was on the phone to one of my friends the other day and we were talking about Christmas cards. Turns out we've bought the same pack of cards, lol. Good idea about the rustic country cottage NQ lol. Was your H going through MLC when he pointed out the flaw? lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Good idea about the rustic country cottage NQ lol. Was your H going through MLC when he pointed out the flaw? lol.
Probably not as it was about 10 years ago - he's always been OCD about things like that though. I'll have to see what he says if he sees that we've unhidden the flaw - he bought a framed photo of my son's favourite hockey player for Christmas so he'll be in his room after Christmas to hang it for him.
The criticism about the Christmas tree is only since MLC though as he never commented about it before this year LOL.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I do need a massage today, my shoulder is really hurting My friend cancelled on me today, thankfully I've got so much to do tomorrow that I didn't really need to be going for a coffee as well. I've not seen my other friend for a couple of weeks, I'm hoping to see her on Friday or it'll be the high maintenance friend, lol. Just finished writing my Christmas cards, well the ones where I don't have to put a little note inside!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
