I don't think she will want to talk R but you never know.
It's more likely she will try and pretend she hasn't been a total b**ch for the last 12 months and expect me to play along in her fun.
Like you said, smiley face on and focus on the kids.
It's very easy to just go with the flow but I am aware of myself when it comes to the dating. I have an internal dialogue that I use to keep myself grounded and my expectations chained down.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14