Seems a sound decision then. Put on your smiley face and focus on the kids.

If she wants to talk R, etc you could calmly say, "this isn't the time for that, this is kid time. We'll talk another time." and then give her a time to call you and talk about whatever, don't just blow her off.

T, you have made such great strides, just like your thread title a giant leap forward.

Your 22 hour "date" was fun, even to read about, but you know, go slow.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss