As their mother she does deserve more info. I wasn't keeping it short because that is what she does, I just didn't want the contact if I could help it. I don't really feel like that anymore though. Giving her the extra info felt good, like I'm not being quiet to protect myself anymore or to prove a point. It's more the info I would give my brother if I was looking after his daughter.
that sounds great. Remember, it's not your job to teach her anything.
Be the man you want to be regardless of how other people in your life are.
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On Friday I am going to see the kids in their xmas carol service and then we are all going for dinner. Not sure how I feel about it.
Why are you going to dinner?
I will be turning up on Friday only for an hour or so to see the kids do their xmas carol service. I didn't want to just leave after as normally I would take them with me for the weekend but I'm not so I asked if I could take them to dinner. W said yes we can all go as it may be good for them. I could have said no but then she could say no. Soending that little bit more time them is more important than whether she is there or not.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14