She asked me if i wanted to go Christmas shopping with her for D.

I really don't want to. I don't want her to think that she can have anything to do with me while she is with OM.

This is a boundary that i want to implement. As long as you are with OM, our interactions will be FINANCES and D. Thats it.

Should I tell her this boundary? Or should I just say I think i'm going to do my own thing?

I have no idea if she is going to file for divorce. I'm starting to wonder if I should just do it.

M28 W27
D3
M 2years
Bomb 9/23/2013
Separated 11/17/2013
EA/PA Confirmed 12/5/13

Expecting Compliance is Control
What would you do, if you weren't Afraid?