Let me just start out by saying, this was one of the hardest weekends of my life.
Suspecting an A is one thing. Finding concrete evidence, bringing the evidence to my W, and having her continue to deny, and lie about it is another.
How does someone continue to deny something when it is RIGHT THERE.
She is already starting a new life with OM. They are In love. They were meant to be together. She has never been happier in her entire life! (That was a kick in the nuts)