Hi Bright. The holidays are so hard, aren't they? Will your H be welcomed at your family's holiday? Do you think he'll really show up?
This will be my 5th MLC Christmas. We have sort of faked it for my oldest son and his family, who come down from CT on Christmas eve every year and spend the night. This is the first year we'll have together that H was actually having a real PA, it was always EAs in the past (not that they don't hurt as much ). I don't know if his relationship with the Russian will make a difference to him or not, but it sure changes everything for me. I'm not sure how H will be acting, and guess I'll just continue to STFU and enjoy my grandkids until it's all over.
Maybe your H is starting to see all that he has given up in his search for that perfect woman and perfect life. The holidays are really a time to connect with family and friends. How did your holidays go last year? That was your first MLC Christmas, right?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
). I don't know if his relationship with the Russian will make a difference to him or not, but it sure changes everything for me. I'm not sure how H will be acting, and guess I'll just continue to STFU and enjoy my grandkids until it's all over. 