More ideas: be more systematic about a new partner. My still-W says I need a kind, gentle person, which rings true. Perhaps look for someone from my alma mater, which is known for its awkward introverts.

My biggest fear right now is regarding the trip I've booked for my son and I. W and d do not know. How will they react? When shall I tell them? Suppose they do not approve? Is it okay that he and I take this trip, taking him away from them during Christmas vacation?

Luke

M58, xW54
S22, D18
M 1984, D 2016
Living a new life.