Thanks again for your insight!!! You have been a godsend for keeping my PMA up! I have been trying so hard to not react to my W and only validate! In fact I am actually just trying to validate everyone these days. Figure the best way to change myself is to change my interactions with everyone.
Talking Divorce and financials is very tough... I do think that W gave me some nuggets of wisdom on how I interacted with her when it comes to business/home/finances. I have always felt that I was the leader and she only wanted to follow, Even with our spirituality too. I think this crisis we are going through is a way for W to take controll and also find out who she is. I just hope that there is not a wake of distruction for the kids and household. I love her... and am not giving up... at least anytime soon.
Groov
Me:35 W:33 D:6 S:4 M:13 years BD:W Moves Out with D6 S4 7/25/13 EA: Confirmed 12/12/13 Divorced: 11/7/2014