Everything sounds wonderful, I like the our tree statement. At least now he knows what you want, he can't be wondering about where you stand. Maybe it will take him some time to process it, I think they need to get it through their thick heads that we still want them back after they left us. I don't know if it is the guilt or can't believe how strong we are, but I know my H still is going through those types of thoughts. Maybe every other week make a simple statement like that, not pressure, but reassurance that you want him in your life.
