Actually, DB-ing, or the goal of it anyway, is he's nice = you're ok, he's hostile and hateful = you're ok. If you need to run and hide for now, ok, but work on disassociating your emotions from his emotions.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
