lmao!! I said I was not looking for an apology or rebuttal on the issue and I didn't get one..lol
I had also said that he does a lot for us and I hate to ask him for anything else. He said if he can't do it he'll tell me otherwise he is happy to do it.
That's all he put.
I saw us sliding back into old patterns tonight, that was the reason for the email. Before I would have let it go. Now it's addressed, in the open and I have a reference when it happens again rather than getting hurt or angry.
I just hoped I explained well enough without any sense of blame.
Actually I just read what I wrote in my previous post and I didn't tell H it didn't matter what he said, but "I know it is not what you meant but it is what I heard"
