Me 13 months on, affair finally confirmed.

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Thanks BrightFuture, both my son and his fiance are both very level headed kids. So no worries there.
Thanks also for the vote of confidence about what I am doing. It is appreciated.
One close workmate told me today, it sounds like the W is trying to push me to initiate the divorce possibly.
By her being all business in communication only, it is as though she is wanting me to do the finishing it off. Especially under the circumstances she can then tell people I divorced her and she is in a new relationship. It doesn't sound as good, if she divorces me and then is in a new relationship.
Again, I am going to continue standing for my marriage. I will have bad days and good days. And in 5 days, they should all be good, when back home.