Melissa thank you for your inspiring comment. Yes you are right that something better might be out there for all or us. But what about our kids? What about my daughter?

Im from a culture that is used to sacrificing everything for their kids. We have life long marriages and we all know they are not all happy. But the kids get a solid family life and stability. What about their dream?

Its just so selfish. There's no going around that.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017