So, why did you do that? Why did you Google your W? Seriously, I would like to know.
Now that you have done that and discovered stuff you didn't really want or need to know, what are you going to do with that?
This is why snooping and sniffing around is so dangerous. You find out things that may or may not have any meaning. Your mind is going to be moving in circles and you will spin because of this. You have unnecessarily brought pain to yourself. It is those self-inflicted wounds that hurt the most.
I can not stress enough how reckless and self-destructive this behavior is.
Case in point... I have not been on my W's FB since June. Nothing there I want to see or need to see. I do not go to her BF's page for the same reasons. I just blocked some people off my news feed so that what they post will not show any longer. I don't go on my In-laws pages, either. I do not Google my W or her BF. Why? Because there is absolutely nothing positive to be gained by it.
Remember the adage "Ignorance is bliss"? It is true.
What we are all going through is tough enough without adding fuel to a fire. It is feeding the wrong fire, brother.
Now, let's go get an ice cream... I'm buying.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
