I don't understand the need to cut her off the exchange server. What is the big deal about this? Is it just to make her 'face the reality' of leaving? If it is, honestly, I think it will just make you come across as a jerk, or angry and bitter if you keep bringing it up and it will not help your cause at all. If it gives her access to company information she shouldn't have, that is different.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13