Well, I have finished reading your threads and I have to say I hope to be as fortunate as you! Your H left in late July and by Oct. 3 you guys are . I think it is great that you are able to maintain a connection like that because I am sure it is not driving him further from you but rather much closer. I think it must be titillating to be in the midst of a steamy affair with your H! Certainly would not have happened if you were in the same house. So, maybe this is the spark that will get the emotional flames roaring again for him.
I wish I could get my W to consider . I just don't know how to go about it without backsliding and pushing her further away. From what I have learned, must be on W's terms and timeframe. I get excited when she simply gives me a peck on the cheek, no less .
I will keep praying for us both. You have done and are doing all the right things, I hope I am nearly as good as you at this whole process.
. I think it is great that you are able to maintain a connection like that because I am sure it is not driving him further from you but rather much closer. I think it must be titillating to be in the midst of a steamy affair with your H! Certainly would not have happened if you were in the same house. So, maybe this is the spark that will get the emotional flames roaring again for him. 
