Straws and popcorn at the ready.....we have movement.
Today we went as a family to the cinema. Then he asked us to go to dinner together. Over dinner he asked me out on a date. Then when we got back he rubbed my back.
Must go back to no expectations but I'm a bit shocked by the movement!
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13
Well, that explains the nasty weather across the US and Europe! LOL!
I'm glad to see some movement and I would definitely dress to the "nines" when you go out on that date. I'm very happy for you!
Keep your expectations at zero at all times!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Wow Callie, serious movement. Shhhhhh, don't scare the squirrel!
Seriously, I am very happy for you, that sounds wonderful, a DATE. Wow, agree with job, dress to the nines, with low expectations. I hope it goes well!!!!!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
Let's not hold our breath.....it's not happened yet! But don't you worry about me looking amazing....I really really will!
Looks like the OW got ditched too.
I asked him what happened to his friends girlfriend (he was pretending it wasn't his OW.....) he says that they split yesterday. He calls her S and says her and his friend have been together a while.....yet he tells me EVERYTHING about his friends love life and has never mentioned her before. I knew she was H's OW and her name is J
Quick look on J's Facebook.....her status indicates that something has happened in her relationship status and not in a good way. One of those vague status's that invite questions.
J is the girl H has been 'helping' through manic depression to 'help' him through his depression.
Guess time will tell!
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13
Caution CC. ZERO expectations. I got a "touch & go" from W just before Thanksgiving. Really screwed up my thinking for a week or so. Just now getting things in my head back where they are supposed to be. Check out indigo's sitch for a nightmare scenario.
In the meantime, enjoy the date. Look killer and have a great time.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
AWESOME CC ~~~ be alluring, cool & awesome!!! Keep your guard up, but be open to listening.... Good luck!!
Would love to be in your shoes!
Magic
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
Good luck! Remember keep it friendly, light, fun, and a little flirty never hurts.
I am sending positive thoughts into the universe for you. I hope the date goes splendidly.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
Had a bit of a low moment yesterday.....to be expected I think.
Much like the MLC'er, when good things happen, I got frightened.
I don't know how I feel. I don't need to know yet but I was over thinking stuff. Worrying that I was leading him on. What if I don't want him back in the end? But then I never told him I did. Never. I've never begged, never pleaded, never told him he could come back. So why am I worried? I'm worried that if I don't want him back, then he may spiral further and my kids will never know the father he could have been. The beautiful kind generous caring man that he once was.
I could see the other day how much more relaxed the kids were with him. It was beautiful to see. It was the father he'd once been and they lapped it up.
For their sake I hope my H, the man I married, comes back one day......for their sake. Yes I understand a variation of my H will come back, and I'm ok with that. But if you'd seen the look in my children's eyes when they spent the day with the man I married you'd want it as much as I do. But will I want him??? Only time will tell.
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13
