When H was here last, he said he would do a better job of communicating with me on this trip and he really did a great job last week. So, I did a little cheerleading and sent a message telling him I've enjoyed our "coffee time" (when he usually contacts me) and said thanks for taking the time.
So, this morning I get a text telling me he is busy running errands and then I hear nothing else the remainder of the day. And this is his day off. Really? Saying thanks makes him distance and ignore me? It stings - but he will never know that!
Was I wrong to send the message? What do I do now? He seemed to mellowing and reaching out a little and now I feel like I have to go back to being no contact unless he initiates it.
I know he did have a social affair last night with a group of guys (at least, that's what he said) and was out partying until the wee hours. He included that in his text and said he had a good time.
I guess he got a dose of the fantasy life he has over there and put me on the back burner again. Ugh!
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
