Originally Posted By: bustingout
I would like to break the cycle of avoiding feelings and keeping them inside. Both my h and I came from that type of family background... Just getting on with it and not talking about how one feels.

Because of how D is feeling I woke up today feeling very angry at H. Conversation in head is me telling him it's finished - he doesn't deserve us and he can live in his fairy land or all of eternity for all I care!

Hey busting ((( ))), is this about D's feelings or yours? Either way is fine but just be clear within yourself. Your feelings shouldn't be denied either.

How are you about talking about your emotions around your kids? Or talking about emotional things like their daily ups and downs with friends?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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