Sorry about my "not enough coffee yet" poor punctuation post above. Sheesh.
I'm not saying give a gift or not give a gift, but just be sure within yourself that what ever you decide is the best thing for you and you do it with no expectations.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss