Hi gang. Need to catch up on some positives and reassure myself that a boring sitch is okay as long as it is positive!

djembequeen - hey keep on biting your tongue. I promised my H no R talks back in August and I haven't done it yet. If I can do it, so can you. You'll know when you are ready to come to piecing..

Positives:

1. D9 won her hockey games last Sat! So has another this weekend and next! H comes to all the games and sits with us.
2. MIL took kids and I to dinner Monday night. I invited H and he came.
3. After not having alone time since last Friday (and no either) H came over late last night. Got a great massage and some too!
4. H and I watched TV and conversed again last night too!
5. H has talked "we" a few times. Inadvertantly or not, I see it as positive since he has been so guarded in doing that since moving out.

Will do more later, but need to go pick up D9 at school! Have to round up S3 and S5 first -


totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."