About the long road...what else do you have to do?
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The problem for me is it can be very hard to not internalize or take what she is saying and placing blame on myself or falling into the role of self-pity. We both have a hard time not taking blame or responsibility for the other.
I've read this several times because I think I know the feeling.
Is it true that you are responsible for her feelings?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss