A happy life in 5 years would be: less pain and less loneliness, spending time with my kids without the shadow and disapproval of my W, a woman who does not hurt me or put me down, who fights fair (and ideally teaches me about fighting). A country per year trip, involving learning the language, culture, history, etc, with the kids. Friends. Hearing from friends more often, so that life is more than just metabolism. Playing music. Intellectual stimulation. Sex. Holding hands. Affection. Not sure what country I would live in. Perhaps a new job in a new field. Feeling comfortable at parties. More assertiveness.
Not sure I can be more detailed - any suggestions? Questions?
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
