"I'm not going tonight, so we can decorate the house!! Bring on xmas! Ho ho ho ;)"
You should have confronted her about this. That you won't be the second person any longer and that won't be constantly disrespected because she is your wife.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.