Deb, for us sex was sporadic for several years what with three small children, exhaustion, and the real culprit - lack of good communication and listening by each of us.
Now, after DBing since last August, and our breakthrough in October, sex is spontaneous - wherever and whenever. I forgot to mention in my last update, that on Saturday, he "scrubbed my back" ( ) when I took a shower late Saturday morning. The kids were involved in various activities around the house at the time.
Needless to say, these actions speak quite loudly and I really don't need Valentine's Day to tell me that he loves me!
Of course, I still await the biggest action of them all - his moving back home. That is why I still await patiently and keep on DBing with all of you.
You guys certainly help keep my PMA up!
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"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
) when I took a shower late Saturday morning. The kids were involved in various activities around the house at the time. 
