Final phase of losing wife?

[jp787]

Fight,
Not disagreeing at all, for some of us physical separation is what has to happen to make changes. For me, I was unable to give my W space and she needed to get away to breath. For us her leaving for nine months gave us our second chance, it took a lot of courage and strength for her to do that.

I get why you feel the way you do, when my W left I thought it was the end. Honestly, it doesn't always mean that.