Oh- she also said she wanted to exchange Christmas gifts. I told her I would think about it and that we should see where we are in a few weeks. I think it could be a nice chance think do something meaningful for her that the OM couldn't do but could it also be enabling cake eating??
I do not see this as cake eating at all. The earrings are (IMO) a good gift. She will know you listened to her, that will be the gift.
Don't try to beat the OM, just be the best you that you can.
Glad this are going better, keep your seat belt on.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
