I can take him leaving and handle it but his disregard for her emotional well being makes me want to shake him.
Life never is black and white though, is it?
I think you covered it pretty well in your earlier post - suicide or leave. No guarantee with either. That struck a chord with me as it made me remember back to when my ex was doing similar. I actually called her psych (she was in grad school) and asked about it. He chewed me out. She chewed me out. But I'm very glad I did it. It seemed to head that off, although it resulted in her directing her anger at me instead.
I can live with that. You?
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
