I do also have some emergency funds, but I am loathe to use it for anything that is short of an emergency. I consider it on loan from my parents temporarily and don't want to spend a cent of it unless someone is actually bleeding or starving to death.

And certainly I don't want H to know I have it.

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T-16 1/2
Son-14 (HF Aspergers)
BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."