Just an update from the Queen of PATIENCE:

1. H came over Friday night, got cozy (yeah, more ) and stayed overnight (has only stayed over 3 times since October), getting up at 6 a.m. before kids discovered him.
2. H came back at 9 a.m., snowblowed driveway, hung around while I ran errands, but left early with headache (around 8 p.m.)
3. H came over as we arrived home from church, cooked us a fab lunch and then went to a neighbor's wake with kids and I. Then he met friend to go ice-fishing.
4. This was H's weekend with kids but we spent it together in our home!!!!!

Boring aren't I?

Seriously, I need to journal here to remind myself that we are still in the midst of this journey back to a stronger M. H still isn't living here and hasn't mentioned doing so. Of course, I don't do R talks as I promised him I wouldn't.

So, while this seems positive, we obviously have a long way to go. For whatever reason, H isn't living here. I just continue to work on me, my goals and being the best wife, mother, daughter, consultant, etc. that I can be.

Thanks for your encouragement and support. I really do need it in my life as I have come to need all of you.

totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."