It's Not Over 'Till It's Over

[Fight4MyWife]

I still think you're barking up the wrong tree man. Forcing her to answer those questions will only throw her guilt in her face and she won't appreciate that.

I am definitely not planning on "forcing" her to answer anything. From the advice here I probably will not attempt to ask her if she is ready talk or anything like that at all. I was just answering the question of why I feel like I needed to know the reasons for her decisions and that is why I feel like that deep down. It doesn't mean I am going to act on that desire though.

I would consider taking some time and really trying to figure out for yourself what you have done in the past that may have contributed to the problem. Then work on improving those areas.

I think I have figured out some of the things I have done that have contributed to the problem and have already begun working on improving those areas. I do wish my wife would believe that though.