W's reasons are one massive, messy ball of yarn and it'll be messy trying to unravel it all. You don't want to go there. And just why are you still looking in W's direction? For some smoke signals?
Why do you "hafta" to know the reasons? What is really bothering you down deep inside?
Before we were married she promised me that she would never leave "no matter what" & then we married and vowed "for better or worse, till death us do part".
She is the only person I have ever trusted with all my heart & that has just been totally destroyed.
I feel like I want to know the reasons because I don't know how else to accept that someone who I trusted & who made promises to me has gone back on those promises. I want to know the reasons to explain or understand how those promises can be broken.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014