I would almost say he took the big stuff because your telling him could leave it for now was almost taken up as a "don't tell me what to do" kind of thing. :P

Or maybe just that some of those larger items are functional and he may need the furniture for his space... a box of photographs and Army medals that might jog his memory about his relationship with is Dad might be exactly the sort of thing he DOESN'T want to sit alone with while in depression.

I don't think you can really read much into what he has taken and not taken. He is confused and foggy and probably feels quite comfortable with just taking what he wants for now and getting other things later when he thinks of them. The MLCer is often stuck in thinking day to day, no future plans, so he isn't thinking about needing to get ALL his stuff out of the house and into his new place to start his new life.


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