I guess it seems like it's not really going dark and it's also 'rewarding ' her while she's still having an affair. Assuming that she will still be in the affair by christmas.

When her mother died back in may, she got some of her jewelry. There was a ring and pendant made from a stone she likes and I remember her saying she wished she had earrings from that stone. So I looked online and a nice pair is 100 bucks or so. That's my idea. Over the top?


Me:38 W:39
No Children
BD: 5/13
EA/PA Confirmed: 7/13
W Moved out 12/13