In my sitch, it took about 9 years before Ms. Wonka and I were able to have some semblance of back and forth contacts.
Wow, that is a long time. I am not sure I have that much patience.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
Try not to take this personally
It's hard not to take it personally.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
Oh and I've never been on AD meds throughout all the 'journey.' It is a personal choice for each one of us.
I can imagine someone taking Anti-depressants if they have a medical chemical imbalance that is causing depression but this is a natural grieving process that is taking place because of the circumstances. I don't believe in interfering with a genuine natural process.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014