Originally Posted By: Wonka
I've been following your sitch from afar


Thanks so much for posting

Originally Posted By: Wonka
In my sitch, it took about 9 years before Ms. Wonka and I were able to have some semblance of back and forth contacts.


Wow, that is a long time. I am not sure I have that much patience.

Originally Posted By: Wonka
Try not to take this personally


It's hard not to take it personally.

Originally Posted By: Wonka
Oh and I've never been on AD meds throughout all the 'journey.' It is a personal choice for each one of us.


I can imagine someone taking Anti-depressants if they have a medical chemical imbalance that is causing depression but this is a natural grieving process that is taking place because of the circumstances. I don't believe in interfering with a genuine natural process.


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014