H came to pick up D last night and I really just wanted him to get her and go knowing my mood. Of course he decided to stand around and chat, questioned what I'd been doing all week since D still had to write a summary on a book and I got mad. Should have walked off but I didn't. It didn't get too bad since I only told him to leave her here this weekend and I'd get it done then I walked off but of course everything after that was strained. I've got to learn to keep my mouth shut when I have PMS! Other days I'm fine interacting but that just got in my craw! I mean don't criticize my parenting when you should be here helping!
This morning I got to looking around at all the stuff he left. It's all his dad's stuff. Things he said meant a lot to him, Army uniforms, medals, shoe shine kit. But he took all his mother's things that had been handed down, large things that I would have said he could leave and get later due to space. I'm wondering if he even realizes he did that. I just checked the garage and there's a ton of stuff there too. I wonder if this is one of the things he needs to work on his relationship he had his father. Not trying to psychoanalyze but just musing on this discovery.
H-44 Me-43 D9 T-13 years M-12 years BD-8/21/13 Sep- 11/19/13 D in process
