What about when I just text my wife to reminisce about our son & sharing thoughts about how he is growing up etc. Should this also be avoided? She is the only person I have this in common with.

Last week I sent her a text about something and we had a pleasant exchange of 2/3 texts, other times she just completely ignores me like she didn't even receive it. It's infuriating.

I find this whole silent treatment, ignoring behaviour very childish. It's like being back at school. I just can not understand how an grown adult can act in that manner to anyone, even a stranger, never mind someone you just lived with for 14 years.

Sometimes she can be so nice, pleasant & chatty & another time just blatantly ignores me like I don't exist.


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014