Good, keep coming here to vent, that's what we are here for! Just don't do it in front of your W.
Hmm. Does R talk mean reconciliation talk? I always thought it meant relationship talk. So when I say no R talk I mean no talk about how she feels about you, what your relationship is, your future together, her intentions, etc. She will bring it up if she wants to talk about it.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14